This paper discusses the women's position reflected by traditional wedding ceremonies by following the method of combining folklore with history. It is pointed out that the process of discussing marriage conforming to 'commands of the parents' and 'unity of two families' reflects that women's personal wishes are not respected; the marriage aim'breeding descendants' indicates that there is no personal happiness; various taboos reveal discrimination against women; the custom of performing the kowtow and examining women's virginity are insults t...